SOLITUDE ? INTROVERT ? BOTH FUCKING AWESOME. GO_4_IT

Heard it somewhere,”People who end up reading other people’s blogs, don’t have a life of their own”. No need of taking these words seriously.
In fact, if there won’t be any readers, then all the writers would be wiping their asses from their writing. Every process requires at least two participants, even the other biological processes (yeah, sex is on the top of the bucket, OBVIOUSLY).
Which means that we can’t live alone. Which is so not true.
For some people it’s scary to imagine this. Few people find it difficult to bunk a lecture alone. But for some it’s their ultimate pleasure, they end up bunking the whole day on their own.
Living a life on their own. no one messing around. no society, no culture, no religion, no politics, no democracy, no institution, no authority, no relatives, no parents, no friends, no mobiles, no facebook, no fucking watsapp, no one. Just a small bag pack with a needful of things. Fucking adventurous.
These might the signs of becoming a tramp, but somehow real fun of life is in this only. Until and unless you are not on your own, you will never get to know the real you. You aren’t just about to rub you ass for four years, get a useless degree, then a futile job and increasing the world’s population in the name of so called ‘FAMILY’.
Some people call it turning into a misanthrope. Well, people bark all the time. Ignore the kids.
Spending a time in solitude never makes anyone crazy, neither it’s harmful nor it’s a sign of mental illness. Solitude is a blessing. Not everyone has the power to deal with it but yes, everyone can. solitude is the real freedom.
For people it’s necessary to maintain a conversation, irrespective of the fact that boring talks always destroy the bond. If you repeat the same shit time to time, people will end up giving up on you and then you would be the one poiting the others as the egoistic ones. Ultimately, you would be alone and then lonely too.
But if you have a mere experience of spending time with your own self, you will realize it’s real worth. If you will start enjoying with your own self, you won’t need anyone else to enjoy with you. If you will start loving your own self, you won’t be craving for anyone’s else’s company to come and complete you.
And finally, when the people will find out that you are elated with yourself, they will end up approaching you. And the best part, you won’t be needing them anymore. And here it gets more interesting, again if you end up losing them, you will find ultimate peace, the real bliss of life.
Quoting BUDDHA here, “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
My words might not fit the society, but BUDDHA is with me 😉

— raman thukral